Thursday, July 26, 2012

Relaxed mode

Could it be true? Can hyper vigilant people change? After our July beach vacation, I discovered that I didn't really need to blow my hair straight. My hair is not curly, but has an unruly wave. I always felt the need to tame it. Now I tried the relaxed look out on my visits to the dentist, Bridge club and Woman's club and got unsolicited positive feedback. Then, I realized that maybe my control freak mode was fading away. I had been making a conscious effort to say yes to my husband's requests, to not contradict his statements, and not suggesting "better" ways to do things. And it came easy. Could it be true? Can hyper vigilant people change? Or is this just a faze in my biorhythm? I guess time will tell. But for now , I'm grateful .

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